We’re now up to mistake #5 - Misreading The Important “Signals” That Slovenian Men Send

Men are constantly communicating how they feel about a Slovenian woman and giving away big secrets about themselves.  Most women don’t pay attention to these signals or recognize them for what they really are.  The signals men send have 4 main levels - According to Loveawake:

1) Social: Where the man is at in his own life - stability, confidence, direction
2) Emotional: Whether or not he’s “emotionally available”
3) Physical: If he’s attracted to you… and for what reasons
4) Love State: If he’s open to building and growing a relationship in the future

The funny thing is that men send signals in these areas completely on accident.  That’s great news to women… Men can’t help it!  You need to learn to recognize these signals to get anywhere serious with a man.

If I had a dime for every time I was attracted to a man that was NOT emotionally available, I’d likley be a very wealthy Slovenain woman.

How many times have you found yourself falling for someone that was either just out of a realtionship or just going through a divorce?  Did you ever stop to think that you may be nothing more than the rebound girl?

At one point in time, I’d become SO good at being the rebound girl, I actually thought of turning it into a career.  The knack I had for helping Slovenian men discover what they wanted out of life and love (even though it was NOT me) was almost scary.

I can’t stress enough to my personal friends and now to the readers here, that before pursuing a relationship, make sure the person is truly ready.  Being divorced (not seperated) for at least a year is a good start.

How do you play your cards?

Are you the type of person that would lay your cards on the table at the start of the relationship or are you that person who spends a portion of your time in it with a little guessing game?

What I’m really wondering about is how much information about yourself can you actually divulge to your date. What are the things that you consider “allowable” topics for conversation apart from the list of your favourites?

Personally, I’m a pretty private person. I value it to the point that I hardly let the guy in — well, until I know why he needs to know certain things about me. It’s just to let him know that I am interested but will not jump right in that easily.

I can’t say that this is the right way to go about this because I’m sure it can screw up the communication between us in a way but I also have this principle that when I’m asked a question, I’ll do my best to give an answer that he wants and needs to hear. [If that makes any sense.]

My only explanation for this particular behaviour is my decision to only disclose these personal information to the guy I’m in a relationship or planning to have a relationship with.

Is that so bad?